Private Party

"Sometimes I'm alone but never lonely
That's what I've come to realize
I've learned to love the quiet moments
The Sunday mornings of life
Where I can reach deep down inside
Or out into the universe
I can laugh until I cry
Or I can cry away the hurt"

The above verse is take from India.Arie's song "Private party". I love it so much coz it reminds me that there is nothing wrong with enjoying your own company and listening to the voice inside. Most of the time this voice gives compliments about little achievements and about our positive image. This is no pity party but a party where u alone celebrate yourself, your beauty from outside and inside. There is no better person to have this private party with other than you.  Today I am having a private party pity is not allowed I will strip down my clothes appreciating how God has created me physically, then strip down all emotional garmets of hatred, pity, doubtfulness and insecurities. I'm having a Private Party I will be all alone celebrating the woman I have become!

My passion for African Soccer

So I have been hit by the African soccer fever...since Afcon Orange started I've been loving the soccer matches, I have not missed a single live game in Mbombela. The spirit here is just awesome, before now even during the 2010 Soccer World Cup I didnt give two looks at at soccer match. I supported Kaiser Chief because I just liked them, but now I know why i support them.  I really get it why people go crayze about the soccer. It's like the soccer fairy flew over me....

The spirit of the Ethiopians was so amazing on their first game against Zambia their support kept their team going and they made the whole stadium brim with join. The beautiful ladies, the colourful clothing Nelspruit was just bright and yellow.  

Their passion for the game.........priceless there was one fan who jumped into the pitch after they had scored their first goal after Zambia had scored. He was so excited he didn’t mind security carrying him over the fence.  And most people clearly saw the one who ran to the goal post NAKED during their loss against Burkina Faso on the 25^th of January.

Speaking of Burkina Faso you also cannot miss the supporter’s with their bright green and red.  They play drums for daaaayzzzz during the day and dance like there is no tomorrow this one caught my eye:

I wonder if that thing is not heavy on his head...

Was totally proud of the support my fellow Mbomela-ians gave especially on Friday when Zambia played with Nigeria wow that crown was just great. This made me realise how soccer brings us all together, white black Indian, coloured didn’t matter we are all African in the end.  I love the spirit when there is just jubilation and soccer does just that. So yeah....I love soccer, but do not go asking me about the off sight rule neh?

Gone too soon

It starts with awareness

On a little bit of a serious note I'd like to share the story of cancer in my family.....

She was taken away from us way too soon.  My sister, my cousin died late last year because of cervical cancer.  She left behind a pretty 15 year old girl and the smartest good looking 8 year old boy I know.  I will never forget the day she passed on. It was on a Sunday afternoon at the Oncology ward at Nelspruit Medi-Clinic. She lay there peacefully and looked like she was resting as we spoke to her she could only respond in body movements but could not utter a word.

The day before her Oncologist said Zanele (my sister) was the strongest patient he had ever come across. The battle of cancer had worn her out and he sadly admitted there is nothing medical science could do to help her.  She had had several operations, had gone through chemo therapy and all those processes she remained in pain yet strong. We had t be there 24/7 coz anything could happen.  We had not lost hope in God but we had to Pray and ask for the Will of God to be done.   We did that because on the Saturday evening she said her good byes and asked for her kids to be well looked after.

 Before she passed on a sister came in to check on her and asked to be left with one member of the family as we stood outside moments later we heard her older sister screaming we knew immediately she had left us.  She looked peaceful more peaceful than I had ever seen her but we were so sure she had rested, her last days in this earth were filled with way too much pain. This is because she took too long to accept  that she had a cancer living in her body, her mother too had it so did her grandmother.

I just had to share the story of Zanele because ladies Cancer is true and if we do not take care of ourselves by taking pre cautionary measures. There are all types of Cancers but just for a little bit of information about cervical cancer: 

·         Symptoms: Most ovarian growths in women under age 30 are benign, fluid-filled cysts.

·         The exact causes of ovarian cancer are unknown.

·         Risk factors that increase the chance of developing ovarian cancer include a family history of cancer, being over 55 years of age, and never being pregnant.

·         The ovarian cancer symptoms and signs can be vague but may include abdominal swelling, pressure, or pain, frequent urination or urinary urgency, back pain, leg pain, unusual vaginal bleeding, and feeling full quickly

Lets educate ourselves and live.

The end to the lovely begining

Looking back 2012 has been an eventful year filled with loads of changes surrounding us especially in South Africa. Politically was quite hectic, socially we saw things we never imagined would happen again in South Africa.

But then there were the fun times....we had events that were totally awesome we saw event management companies taking a big step in impressing the crowds because they finally understand what the people want.  The MP Spring Picnic at Kamhlushwa was a big successes, The Annual 60s we waaay better than 2011 and the turn up was good, we saw Lekazi come back to life as eNdumbeni got back its people after they got lost to bro Spikiri at Zar car wash lol....these is just to mention the very few!

As we begin 2013 I believe we still will have a lot to celebrate. For starters life, the gift to live that has been given to us, the many times we escaped death's snare and going through the loss of people close and dear to us. I look forward to sharing this year's events that my close friends will be hosting....keep an eye out for them.

Resolutions??? Well I have one......to live life in abundance! As the living Word says in John 10:10 "Christ came that we may have life and have in great abundance”.  Until then keep well loved ones.

Skin Therapist Sessions - Nelspruit session!

On a nice warm November Sunday afternoon we gathered at DeJavu Lounge in Nelspruit where welcome drinks  - passion fruit and lemonade and sparkling wine  -  were served to cool us down.  Miss Euphony started the Skin and Make up session right here in Nelspruit as this is where her dream to educate and share knowledge about skin and beauty was conceived.  She believes this is where the seed needed to be planted first as this idea all began here back in 2010 when she was working at a spa.

The private VIP area reserved at Dejavu Lounge was just perfect for the event. There were exciting conversations in the lounge area where we were seated eagely waiting for the event to begin.

MC for the day was well known Ligwalagwala FM radio personality Nobuhle aka "The Drama Queen"



The Drama Queen

  Miss Euphony began her presentation by defining skin and simplifying it from the complex biological terms so that we could easily understand it.  We were later joined by two gentlemen who seemed so interested as they listened in on the discussion about facial scrubbing products. They were awed to hear Miss Euphony dismiss the use of Mentholated spirit after shaving as it "burns" your skin instead of 'killing' germs as most people think.  We learned so much from what types of cleansers are on the market, types of toners we should use for our different skin types, Moisturisers, serums as well as sun protection products.

A light lunch with a wide selection of scrumptious finger foods was served before we moved on to everyone's favourite topic - Make up! Even the guys sat up looking forward to hear what exactly is the hype about when it comes to makeup. She introduced the types of brushes to use in make up application and  how to use them.  

 

Miss Euphony demonstrating

 To be practical she started with demonstrations varying from how to shape your eyebrows, how to fill your eyebrows, how to enhance your eyebrows, eye makeup application, applying blush and concealing skin.  Some interesting questions about make up like how to 'fix' over plucked eyebrows Miss Euphony answered all questions and elaborated on how to's of makeup. There was a well of knowledge to draw from, everyone that was there learned something new because there it was a lovely atmosphere where we openly discussed all our issues from being confused about certain products to our embarrassing make up moments.




Give away time

 Just after dessert was served we were treated to a lovely give away surprise, as if the goody bags which contained a glossy yet informative magazine, chocolate fudge treat, some make up application accessories and lots more was not enough. This was a great opportunity to network with others, meet new people and be just relaxed. We left with so much to still speak about and wanting to know when the next session will be as we couldn't wait to have fun again.  This was truly worth it and the beginning of great events to follow.

Some of the ladies at the Event

Keep You eyes opened to see when she will be back in Nelspruit and when she will be coming to your City - JHB, CP, DBN, PTA are up next. Follow her on twitter @SkinTherapistSA for more information

The Joys of motherhood

What an awesome gift it is to be a mother....this is what most mothers say. Regardless of the fact that is has to be the most difficult job in world that you will never get training for.  Some will tell you they were very fortunate because their moms were there every step of the way.  While others will tell you that they just learnt as they went.  Either way these women will tell you there is no greater joy than having sleepless nights, squeeling and loud cries at the most awkward times.  All mommas will tell you that being a mom is just an awesome feeling.  Those tiny hands holding on for life on your index finger, I think that is the way a baby hugs!

Fights getting into the bath, even worse when you take them out, phew! Food fights the list of struggles is endless, but with a smile we endure them all.  As they grow into tolddlers those giggles, they can turn your most awful day into the best day ever. The beauty that comes from mother nature is undefinable, from them being totally dependent on you to being lil miss thangs or dudes that think that have it all in control.  Thats just pure bliss. 

I was fortunately blessed with an awesome pregnancy with very little complications up to the day I gave birth.  That day will remain the most special day in my whole life. It gently poured outside as I patiently (yes patiently screaming) awaited for the arrival of my little angel.  Most people go on as if the stages of labour are daunting and terrifying.  I totally disagree because it is the most bearable pain because of the love of this person that is coming.  The grand entrance of "madamme" was such a beautiful one, brings tears just thinking of it!  Feels just like the other day that all this happened but its been over a year and now we have conversations in baby language!

Mommies we are blessed beyond measure lets enjoy the joys of motherhood while we can!

Summer Babies!

There has to be something about summer babies! They are just so cheerful! You can spot a summer baby from a mile away. You can tell they were born in the time of warmth light drizzles of rain, that just naturally makes people feel good. Their bubly personality makes you wanto just be with them! They show off this lovely side of theirs until...........you step on the foot and walk away, then u in the ****s.

This summer I will be spending time with cheerful people like that that will not bring no negative energies around! We say no to grey moods and yes yes yes to yellow, pink and cheerful coulorful moods.  After such a long year of hard work, hardships, joy, love, new beginings and growth I just want to enjoy my holidays with people that will bring light in my life.

A wise persoon once said "there are two ways to bring light, either be the light that shines or the mirror in which the light is reflected on." If u are not one of these sorry see you on the flip side!

**No offence intended to my winter born buddies, love u still**